WORKING WITH PLEASURE MAP

Develop new skills. Find the language to express your needs. Learn boundaries.

(Re) discover how your own body can be a roadmap of pleasure.

The principles of consent, The Wheel of Consent

The principles of consent

My approach is informed by The Wheel of Consent, and our sessions are guided by your wants and needs, and only what you feel comfortable with.
Sometimes we need to begin with learning what you want. Only then can you ask for it.

Learning about yourself, your body, and what satisfies you will help you to develop greater sexual confidence, placing the control firmly in your hands and, where relevant, help you to guide any future sexual partner, transforming uncertainty into an impassioned and knowledgeable tour guide.

Some of the areas we can focus on

Learning

■ Partner pleasure skills
■ Communicating needs
■ Deepening Intimacy
■ Touch Fundamentals

boundaries and consent

Boundaries & Consent

■ Define & honour your boundaries
■ Recognise your authentic yes or no

Positive sexuality

Positive Sexuality

■ Solo Play & Self-Exploration
■ Understand your desires
■ Overcome anxiety
■ Develop mindfulness

How I work

Whether working online or in person, my mission is twofold: to support women in reclaiming ownership over their bodies, their desires and their pleasure, and in doing so, help them build a well of wisdom and self-awareness that, if desired, can be utilised for enhancing their partner experiences.

WORKING ONLINE

Conducted over Zoom, online sessions are primarily focused on guiding you with enriching your individual relationship with your body and your pleasure, though where relevant, can also involve developing skills that will enhance your connections and partnered experiences.

WORKING IN PERSON

Working in person can often include exploring different kinds of one-way and/or two-way touch and/or sexual contact. I sometimes refer to this as developing ‘partner skills’. Sessions are conducted at your home or another suitable location of your choosing.

Typically, the Pleasure Map journey utilises a combination of online and in-person sessions; however, it may be that you prefer to work exclusively online or in person.

 
Bespoke sessions to support your journey

We’ll work together to create bespoke sessions that are specific to your needs and goals, and designed to support you on your journey of deepening your connection and relationship with your body and your sexuality. As always, the primary focus is on your well-being and your physical and emotional safety. We always operate on a consensual basis, and you can stop or change your mind at any time. Some of the things you may be looking to experience and learn include:

  • Learn tools for dealing with anxiety and overwhelm including breathing techniques, mindfulness, and verbal cues, to ensure you always feel safe and in control.

  • Becoming an effective communicator will equip you with the skills to express your desires and boundaries with more confidence and clarity.

  • Defining your Boundaries

    Learn to define and honour your boundaries, so you can understand your limits and gain the power and awareness of how these might evolve over time.

    With the aid of the Wheel of Consent framework, learn how to recognise your authentic yes or no and overcome the barriers preventing you from asking for what you really want.

  • Build better awareness and skill in utilising one of the most wonderful tools at your disposal for giving and receiving pleasure: your hands.

  • Learn:

    ✔︎ To Understand your Body
    Becoming more knowledgeable about your body and what gives you pleasure is an important step into a more autonomous embodiment of your sexuality.

    ✔︎ The Foundations of Self-Pleasure
    Expand your repertoire of pleasure through solo play and self-exploration and use your newly acquired skills to inform your sexual experiences.

    ✔︎ How to Manage Distractions
    Maintain the presence of mind you need to ensure the here-and-now gets the undivided attention it deserves.

    ✔︎ Partnered Pleasure Skills
    Whatever your level of experience, take time to master the skills essential for pleasurable partnered sex.

  • Overcome fear and resistance
    Break down the barriers that prevent you from connecting with a partner, to open up to the possibility of more meaningful connections.

    Partnered pleasure skills
    Whatever your level of experience, take time to master the skills essential for pleasurable partnered sex.

  • Discover your Desires
    Develop a greater understanding of your sexual desires so you can tailor your experiences to fit your unique sexual personality and begin having more satisfying sex.

    Reconnect with your Sexuality
    By forming a positive and healthy relationship with your sexuality, you improve not just your sex life, but your wellbeing and life as a whole.

LET’S WORK TOGETHER

Explore your sexuality, your boundaries, and your needs in a safe, supportive, environment.